1 When you sit to dine with a ruler, note well what1 23:1 Or who is before you, |
2 and put a knife to your throat
if you are given to gluttony. |
3 Do not crave his delicacies,
for that food is deceptive. |
4 Do not wear yourself out to get rich;
have the wisdom to show restraint. |
5 Cast but a glance at riches, and they are gone,
for they will surely sprout wings
and fly off to the sky like an eagle. |
6 Do not eat the food of a stingy man,
do not crave his delicacies; |
7 for he is the kind of man who is always thinking about the cost.2 23:7 Or for as he thinks within himself, / so he is; or for as he puts on a feast, / so he is
"Eat and drink," he says to you,
but his heart is not with you. |
8 You will vomit up the little you have eaten
and will have wasted your compliments. |
9 Do not speak to a fool,
for he will scorn the wisdom of your words. |
10 Do not move an ancient boundary stone
or encroach on the fields of the fatherless, |
11 for their Defender is strong;
he will take up their case against you. |
12 Apply your heart to instruction
and your ears to words of knowledge. |
13 Do not withhold discipline from a child;
if you punish him with the rod, he will not die. |
14 Punish him with the rod and save his soul from death.3 23:14 Hebrew Sheol |
15 My son, if your heart is wise,
then my heart will be glad; |
16 my inmost being will rejoice
when your lips speak what is right. |
17 Do not let your heart envy sinners,
but always be zealous for the fear of the LORD . |
18 There is surely a future hope for you,
and your hope will not be cut off. |
19 Listen, my son, and be wise,
and keep your heart on the right path. |
20 Do not join those who drink too much wine
or gorge themselves on meat, |
21 for drunkards and gluttons become poor,
and drowsiness clothes them in rags. |
22 Listen to your father, who gave you life,
and do not despise your mother when she is old. |
23 Buy the truth and do not sell it;
get wisdom, discipline and understanding. |
24 The father of a righteous man has great joy;
he who has a wise son delights in him. |
25 May your father and mother be glad;
may she who gave you birth rejoice! |
26 My son, give me your heart
and let your eyes keep to my ways, |
27 for a prostitute is a deep pit
and a wayward wife is a narrow well. |
28 Like a bandit she lies in wait,
and multiplies the unfaithful among men. |
29 Who has woe? Who has sorrow?
Who has strife? Who has complaints?
Who has needless bruises? Who has bloodshot eyes? |
30 Those who linger over wine,
who go to sample bowls of mixed wine. |
31 Do not gaze at wine when it is red,
when it sparkles in the cup,
when it goes down smoothly! |
32 In the end it bites like a snake
and poisons like a viper. |
33 Your eyes will see strange sights
and your mind imagine confusing things. |
34 You will be like one sleeping on the high seas,
lying on top of the rigging. |
35 "They hit me," you will say, "but I'm not hurt!
They beat me, but I don't feel it!
When will I wake up
so I can find another drink?" |