One of the favorite themes of Christian preachers is the story of Peter's threefold denial and the question the risen Jesus repeated three times: "Do you love Me?" Commentators often pay attention to the shades of meaning in the word "love," which in the Greek text is conveyed by two different words, sometimes drawing far-reaching conclusions from the nuances of Greek usage. Yet such nuances could hardly have played so large a role in Jesus' dialogue with Peter: after all, they were certainly not speaking Greek, but most probably Aramaic; and in Aramaic, unlike Greek, such nuances are absent.
But the threefold question and the threefold answer do have their meaning in Jewish tradition: testimony or an oath repeated three times is considered definitively established. Apparently, this custom is connected with features of the national temperament: who knows what may slip off the tongue in the heat of the moment! But if a person repeats something three times, if he answers the same question the same way three times, then the answer is no longer given in the heat of the moment; the one answering really thinks as he says, and his answer can be considered firm and final.
Of course, when answering Jesus, Peter could not fail to understand why the Teacher asked him the same question three times. He, of course, could not fail to remember his threefold denial of Jesus, even if at that moment it had not been fully conscious. And both of them understood perfectly well that this denial had nevertheless not been fully conscious, but involuntary, that it happened in a situation Peter himself did not fully understand, and that it was threefold only outwardly: for all three times Peter, in essence, did not even think about the meaning of the question, but simply brushed off the questioners so they would not keep him from following what was happening to his Teacher. And Jesus evidently wants from him a threefold, almost formal oath of love for Himself. And Peter becomes bitter and pained, like a person who understands that after what happened the Teacher can no longer trust him as before.
And Jesus immediately explains His questions: Peter has ahead of him a new, important, and responsible ministry, which will end in the same way as the earthly ministry of his Teacher ended. The question was not asked for no reason: Peter himself needed the answer. A man whose apostolic ministry began with involuntary apostasy and ended with the martyr's death of a faithful witness.
