NOTES for Mat 18:1-5

When the Lord gives us a child as an example, He says that our task for attaining the Kingdom is to turn and become like children. What, then, is the main difference between an adult and a child? In particular, it is that a child trusts his parents without any conditions or reservations. He may not understand the necessity or see the meaning in words, prohibitions, and requests, but he trusts. The path of growing up for any person most often passes through a gradual increase in disobedience, rejection of the parents' experience, and accumulation of one's own.

In our relationship with God, we too often find ourselves facing things we do not understand, things the Lord treats as given and does not explain very much. We must protect life, we cannot kill, lie, or betray, we must love one another, and the more complicated a concrete life situation becomes, the less ready we are to trust God, and the more often we say, "and why exactly should I?" In such situations, truly childlike behavior is to turn to the Father and accept what He proposes that we do or not do.

It seems that, for God’s promises to begin to be fulfilled in our lives, we need to reconsider our attitude... toward ourselves. Who are we? Wise, strong, grown-up, righteous people who know good and evil? Then what need do we have of God? And God does not force His fellowship or His presence in our lives upon us. But if we wish to stand before Him as children before their Father, as lost sheep before their Shepherd, then He will truly go before us and will not abandon us.

The question of paying the tax has several aspects. On the one hand, there is the purely historical and legal aspect. Modern exegesis offers several interpretations here. It may have been the Temple tax established by the Law of Moses, or perhaps the Roman tribute, as many Fathers of the Church believed. On the other hand, there is a spiritual question here. We have firm ideas about justice, about what is right and what is not. But we must think about this from an eschatological perspective. Here, within the confines of earthly reality, people’s concrete needs are more important. The Lord also points us to the means of obtaining the resources for these needs: earning them through our labor. On the one hand, a miracle took place. On the other hand, Peter was a fisherman. He had to go and cast a line, that is, to do his usual work. And it was then that the miracle took place.

It is so hard to take in that the Kingdom of Heaven is unlike earthly kingdoms in every respect. Therefore the question "who is greater?" asked by the disciples vividly shows not only their level, since despite their closeness to the Teacher they are still guided by earthly ideas. This question reflects the state of our whole fallen nature, with its notions of domination and subordination that have belonged to it, and have become so familiar, over many thousands of years.

Whenever anyone tries to justify the principle of domination, it is not hard to notice the hope of the one doing the justifying that he himself will be the one to dominate. But Christ, as in many other cases, gives us here a completely different view of the problem. He proposes that adults, solid people accustomed to respecting themselves, become like children. We are advised to reject what we are used to considering valuable, not only social status, but also, to some extent, experience. But if it is the experience of a life saturated with sin, it may not have the value of genuine life experience. Christ invites us to open ourselves toward the Father like a child trustingly receiving everything new from elders. Only, unlike adult people, the Father will never abuse a child's trust.

And it is no accident that immediately after these words Christ speaks about temptations. How easy it is to traumatize a trusting child for life, and how bitter it is when people who have sincerely reached toward the light run into Pharisees and false teachers. The stern words about cutting off body parts may seem like a call to self-mutilation, but in reality what we have before us is a call, expressed in its most extreme form, to be demanding toward oneself, to overcome the evil that nests within us. This evil destroys not only us, but also threatens those nearby. And especially those who have managed to become childlike in their openness.

The question of evil's origin and nature in the world has long occupied and tormented humanity. Hardly anyone could have told us more about it than Jesus, who was to confront the world's evil. Yet He does not say very much to His disciples about the devil and the world's evil; He tells them only that the devil is defeated and that the day will come when this becomes clearly visible to everyone.

Instead, He speaks to His disciples and followers at length and in detail about how to resist evil in everyday life. One of this life's most serious temptations regarding evil deeds and actions is the temptation to imagine oneself powerless before the evil being done. The issue is not even whether it is possible to stop those who do evil, but whether refraining from evil is pointless. The logic of evil suggests that your participation or nonparticipation will change nothing: if not you, then someone else. By trying to resist evil, even simply by refusing to participate in it, you only make your own life more difficult without accomplishing anything at all, for there will be no less evil in the world.

This logic seems temptingly simple, and it would be conclusive if the untransformed world were the only and final reality. Fortunately, it is not. A person who refuses to participate in evil has good reason to act as he does. The issue here is not only, or even chiefly, the world lying in evil, but the person and his spiritual destiny—whether he will be able to enter the Kingdom or remain in “outer darkness.” Even if a situation in the fallen world is indeed often beyond human control—“it must needs be that offenses come”—a person's own choice is always within his power. Jesus apparently gives no weight at all to what is called environmental influence, social determinism, and other similar justifications for the evil a person commits.

Of course, this does not mean that He fails to take account of the situation in which a person must make his choice. He says only that one must not consent to evil or inwardly surrender to it, accepting it as normal simply because it is normal in the fallen world. The norm of the fallen world is no norm but a perversion, and everyone who agrees to become a conduit for the powers of evil must remember this, for “woe to that man by whom the offense cometh.” It may certainly happen that even by refusing to participate in evil, a person will be unable to prevent that evil. But he can keep evil from entering his own heart and thus preserve it for the Kingdom.

The question of what it means to be like children has concerned Christians for many centuries. This is understandable: it is a necessary condition for entering the Kingdom. Most often, people mention childlike innocence and childlike naivete. In reality, however, innocence and naivete are not so simple.

Augustine already observed that children are by no means innocent; they simply do not yet have the strength and skill to sin "like adults," but it is impossible to speak of their sinlessness, or even of their lesser sinfulness compared with adults, because all great sinners naturally grow out of little ones if they do not try to resist their own sinfulness. Naivete is not simple either: children usually understand much more than they tell adults, though, as a rule, in their own way, within the framework of their own logic and their own ideas about the world.

There is, however, one essential difference between children and adults, at least up to a certain age: children are usually little concerned with how they look in the eyes of those around them and what place they occupy in the "adult" world. During this period of their life, children simply ignore the reference points of the "adult" world, while at the same time understanding that it is an objective reality. Adults usually perceive such a child's existence as an ongoing game, more important to the child than the life adults consider "real."

For the child at this time, what is important is what he himself considers real and genuine, not what is conventionally considered so according to generally accepted rules, in which adults themselves often do not quite believe. This childlike attitude toward life is a priceless treasure for everyone who strives for normal, full spiritual life. Normal spiritual life is impossible if one does not live by what one recognizes as genuine, authentic, and real.

As we grow up, to a greater or lesser degree we learn to give up what we ourselves consider real and authentic in favor of what is conventionally considered such, and we pass from reality into illusion, in whose reality we strive with all our strength to convince ourselves and others. To be like children means to refuse such self-deception. This, of course, is only the first step on the path to the Kingdom, to authentic spiritual life, but without the first step there will be no later steps, and therefore no path.

The evangelist connects the words about the children we must become in order to enter the Kingdom of Heaven with a small parable about a shepherd and a lost sheep, and this immediately puts everything in its place. The point is not only that we become weak, defenseless, and dependent, although at times we really do need to feel like children before God; Christ is clearly speaking here about a "new childhood," that is, about a second birth - not only about feeling like children in comparison with God, but actually becoming children of the Heavenly Father (and here any childishness is out of place; this calling is too high).

Understood this way, the familiar commandment "be like children" becomes an incomprehensible call to become participants in God's life, to become beloved sons and daughters in the beloved only-begotten Son - the path opened before us in Christ's Resurrection...

How are we to understand the words that we need to become like children in order to enter the Kingdom of Heaven? Surely everyone who is at least somewhat familiar with little children knows that they are by no means angels, though their angels do stand before the throne of the Most High in heaven. Perhaps the point is precisely their smallness, defenselessness, and dependence on their parents, since the Lord speaks specifically about humbling oneself (v. 4). They are especially vulnerable to temptation, deception, and the action of the world's evil, and therefore they so need God's love and protection. Apparently this very kind of relationship with God is the realization of the Kingdom of Heaven.

What does Jesus mean when He speaks of children as ideal inhabitants of the Kingdom? And what do adults lack in this sense? Of course, when we think or speak about children, we first remember what is usually called "childlike spontaneity," as well as "childlike innocence." But on closer examination the picture is not so simple: a child's psychology is no simpler than an adult's, and anyone who has ever encountered manifestations of childish cruelty can easily doubt that innocence.

But there is something that children certainly have, and that is trustfulness. Even sly and malicious children sometimes show astonishing trustfulness, although, of course, they can be trained out of it if someone wants to. Still, in order to train a child not to trust, especially not to trust his own parents, one has to work very hard. And this, as we can see, is precisely the trust Jesus speaks about when He sets children before adults as an example.

Of course, this too is only a parable: childlike trustfulness, especially in relations with parents, belongs to the order of things that has not yet been transformed; it is a purely natural attachment. And if it remains only that, it will inevitably disappear over time. Then, of course, parents will wonder why their child, so trusting and affectionate in childhood, has suddenly grown distant from them. Jesus, of course, uses the image of childlike trustfulness, which as a rule is quite organic to a child, to describe the goal that everyone seeking the Kingdom must set for himself.

The point, of course, is not to return to childhood in the form of naive religious infantilism or frenzied "spiritual" "obedience" to people from whom a normal person would prefer to keep away. The point is to learn to trust God and the Savior as naturally and organically as a child trusts his parents (in a normal case).

Of course, on a purely natural level (whether we are speaking of physiology or psychology), such relationships are impossible for an adult: fallen man is selfish by nature. They can become possible only in the process of the transformation of human nature, which begins from the moment of the first contact with the Kingdom and ends with the complete and final renewal of human nature at the end of time. And such transformation is important not only for the person himself, but also for the Kingdom: after all, the Kingdom is founded on relationships - the relationships of its inhabitants with one another, of each of them with Christ, and of Christ Himself with His heavenly Father. And the stronger such relationships become, the fuller the Kingdom will be.