2 Oh that my grief were throughly weighed, and my calamity laid in the balances together!
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Job rightly says that his suffering outweighs his friends' exhortations, and therefore his words are unrestrained. But his sufferings begin to exceed even Job's ability to bear them, and for the first time he expresses the wish to die.
It often happens that sinful desires which we directly and consciously reject take root secretly in the soul, undermine the will, and in one form or another try to take possession of us. Something similar happens to Job. He does not appear to blaspheme God, but in essence he follows the advice of his wife that he had initially rejected: "curse God and die." But refusal of the life given by Him very often reveals a refusal of Him Himself.
Job's position before God is unstable, but in the face of his friends it is stronger; therefore Job firmly rejects their speeches, filled with shallow self-confidence. His friends proceed from general considerations, but they do not understand the real pain of the person before them. Job's confidence that he is right can be challenged and will be challenged by God, but it is supported by pain, which his friends lack.
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For Job 6:1-30
1 But Job answered and said,
2 Oh that my grief were throughly weighed, and my calamity laid in the balances together!
3 For now it would be heavier than the sand of the sea: therefore my words are swallowed up.
4 For the arrows of the Almighty are within me, the poison whereof drinketh up my spirit: the terrors of God do set themselves in array against me.
5 Doth the wild ass bray when he hath grass? or loweth the ox over his fodder?
6 Can that which is unsavoury be eaten without salt? or is there any taste in the white of an egg?
7 The things that my soul refused to touch are as my sorrowful meat.
8 Oh that I might have my request; and that God would grant me the thing that I long for!
9 Even that it would please God to destroy me; that he would let loose his hand, and cut me off!
10 Then should I yet have comfort; yea, I would harden myself in sorrow: let him not spare; for I have not concealed the words of the Holy One.
11 What is my strength, that I should hope? and what is mine end, that I should prolong my life?
12 Is my strength the strength of stones? or is my flesh of brass?
13 Is not my help in me? and is wisdom driven quite from me?
14 To him that is afflicted pity should be shewed from his friend; but he forsaketh the fear of the Almighty.
15 My brethren have dealt deceitfully as a brook, and as the stream of brooks they pass away;
16 Which are blackish by reason of the ice, and wherein the snow is hid:
17 What time they wax warm, they vanish: when it is hot, they are consumed out of their place.
18 The paths of their way are turned aside; they go to nothing, and perish.
19 The troops of Tema looked, the companies of Sheba waited for them.
20 They were confounded because they had hoped; they came thither, and were ashamed.
21 For now ye are nothing; ye see my casting down, and are afraid.
22 Did I say, Bring unto me? or, Give a reward for me of your substance?
23 Or, Deliver me from the enemy's hand? or, Redeem me from the hand of the mighty?
24 Teach me, and I will hold my tongue: and cause me to understand wherein I have erred.
25 How forcible are right words! but what doth your arguing reprove?
26 Do ye imagine to reprove words, and the speeches of one that is desperate, which are as wind?
27 Yea, ye overwhelm the fatherless, and ye dig a pit for your friend.
28 Now therefore be content, look upon me; for it is evident unto you if I lie.
29 Return, I pray you, let it not be iniquity; yea, return again, my righteousness is in it.
30 Is there iniquity in my tongue? cannot my taste discern perverse things?
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Of course, Job has nothing to say in reply to Eliphaz about what has been said. But he understands perfectly...
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Of course, Job has nothing to say in reply to Eliphaz about what has been said. But he understands perfectly well that his friend's words in this case miss the target (vv. 26-30). Job had no intention at all of denying the obvious religious truths that were known to him no less than to Eliphaz or to any of his other friends. Job does not argue with Eliphaz or object to him at all. He says: how much longer can I endure, and what can I hope for (vv. 11-13)? The most terrible thing has happened: something has fallen upon a righteous person that he does not deserve in any way, and a human being can do nothing about it, because God explains nothing to him. He only strikes blow after blow, and human strength is not boundless (vv. 2-4).
Job had always feared sin and impurity most of all, and now he has fallen ill with a disease that makes a person unclean, a disease known to be sent by God to the most terrible sinners as punishment for their sins. Now God forces Job to live precisely in such impurity, like the worst sinner (vv. 5-7). It would be better if He gave Job the chance to die: death is the lot of everyone, there is no sin in it, and the death of a righteous person is as pure before God as his life. But death does not come, and there is no end in sight to a life spent in impurity (vv. 8-10).
Job, as we can see, is frightened not by death, but by a life whose meaning and purpose he does not see, and by a punishment whose reason he does not understand. In such a situation, it would truly have been better for his friends to keep silent and simply be near the sufferer, without trying to "instruct" him with common truths and general phrases (vv. 14-20). But they cannot be silent, and Job himself tells them why: they are afraid (v. 21). This, of course, is not fear of leprosy; otherwise Job's friends would hardly have come to him, and certainly would not have spent a whole week beside him. What frightens Job's friends is what he says. Job's words do not fit into the framework of traditional religiosity, and his friends try to "bring him to his senses," or in essence, to squeeze him back into the old framework that has become too tight for the sufferer. But Job stands firm in what he says; he is convinced that he is right (vv. 24, 29).